When I ask someone who doesn’t know me to model, they usually have one of two reactions:

“Sure, it sounds like fun!”  or “Well, how do I know you’re legitmate?  (or my favorite variation, “How do I know that you’re not going to rape/murder me?”)”

Guess which one worries me the most?  If you guessed “Sure, it sounds like fun!” then you get a cookie – (hope you like ill frosted christmas shaped cookies – because I’ve got plenty.)

Now, if they know another model or are familiar with my work – then no big deal, c’mon aboard.  It’s the unexamined querey...

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I wrote this a few years ago, and unfortunately, it still rings true. This is one of my more popular writings and I felt that it needed to be on my new site:

There are certain truths about women that I’ve notice from photographing them. I decided that, because my models are also my closest friends, I decided to share with you the insights that I’ve made – to help you, my fellow men, not to be a dick. And I’ve come to the conclusion, a lot of you guys out there are dicks. Please, stop being dicks.…

My observations:

1) Most women don’t want you – mostly because you take no interest in who they...

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